12.08.25
Quiz: Am I Genderfluid?
Last Updated 22.01.26
○ DISCLAIMER
This quiz is for entertainment only and cannot determine your sexuality or gender identity. It is not a diagnostic tool and shouldn't guide major life decisions. For genuine support with identity questions, please consult qualified LGBTQ+-friendly professionals. Your self-discovery journey is uniquely yours.
Genderfluidity is the experience of perceiving one’s gender identity as changeable and fluid over time. Unlike people who consistently feel like a man, woman, or non-binary person, genderfluid individuals experience shifts between different gender identities. These changes can occur cyclically with predictable patterns, spontaneously without triggers, situationally depending on context, or gradually over days and weeks. Research shows approximately 0.1% of the population identifies as genderfluid, though real numbers may be higher. This genderfluid quiz explores whether your experience aligns with this dynamic identity.
The quiz examines fluctuating self-perception where your internal sense of gender changes, variable discomfort from gender expectations (a dress that brought joy yesterday feels wrong today), and gender euphoria in different presentations. Other signs include variability in preferred social roles, bodily dysphoria that comes in waves, and practical needs like maintaining diverse wardrobes for different gender states. Genderfluidity differs from other non-binary identities through its emphasis on movement and dynamics – it’s not an intermediate state but an active process of flowing between points on the gender spectrum.
Questions Overview
1. How do you feel about changing clothing styles?
- Prefer a consistent style
- Love experimenting depending on my mood
- Exploring different styles to find my own
- Mix styles without thinking about gender norms
2. How do you react when people use different pronouns for you?
- Prefer one specific set of pronouns
- Comfortable with different ones on different days
- Want to try different ones to see what fits
- Don't place much importance on pronouns
3. What do you feel when looking at your childhood photos?
- Recognize myself immediately
- See different versions of myself
- Try to understand how I've changed
- Just see a child without gender frames
4. How do you relate to social roles?
- Comfortable in traditional roles
- It varies during different periods
- Try different roles
- Create my own unique role
5. What's your approach to makeup?
- Consistent style or no makeup at all
- Change looks based on mood
- Experiment with different techniques
- Use it as a form of self-expression without rules
6. How do you choose perfume?
- Have one favorite scent
- Alternate between 'masculine' and 'feminine' fragrances
- Try different ones, searching for my signature scent
- Choose based on mood, ignoring gender marketing
7. How do you feel when required to indicate your gender on forms?
- Calmly check the appropriate box
- Answer depends on how I feel at the moment
- Take time to consider the choice
- Wish there were more options available
8. How do you react to gender-specific gifts?
- Happy if they match my gender
- Reaction depends on my current state
- Interested in trying different things
- Don't understand the concept of gendered gifts
9. How do you feel about your voice?
- Content with my natural voice
- Sometimes want to speak differently
- Experiment with different tones
- Don't associate voice with gender
10. What do you feel when trying on new clothes?
- Know my style exactly
- Feelings change day to day
- Exploring what suits me
- Choose what I like regardless of section
11. How do you react to appearance-based compliments?
- Enjoy those matching my gender
- Differently on different days
- Interested in hearing various ones
- Appreciate compliments unrelated to gender
12. What's your attitude toward gender-specific holidays?
- Celebrate 'my' holiday
- Might celebrate different ones
- Interested in exploring different traditions
- Think dividing holidays by gender is outdated
13. How do you choose social media avatars?
- Use photos reflecting my gender
- Change depending on how I feel
- Try different images
- Choose abstract images
14. Which emojis do you use most often?
- Those matching my gender
- Different ones depending on mood
- Experiment with various ones
- Gender-neutral ones
15. How do you react to gender stereotypes in media?
- Some feel natural
- Attitude changes over time
- Analyze their influence on myself
- Consider them outdated and limiting
Michael Chen
Michael Chen completed his Ph.D. in Gender Studies at Yale University and now leads transgender health initiatives at Boston Medical Center. His research on gender identity development has been featured in leading medical journals and informed policy development for transgender healthcare access. Dr. Chen draws from his academic expertise to create educational content that promotes understanding of diverse gender expressions and identities.
I’m genuinely confused when it comes to my gender. I say I’m gender fluid(still haven’t came out to anyone tho) but this says non binary. But I also feel like I could be trans ftm but kinda nonbinary but kinda genderfluid. Gender is crazy. I don’t know what to think anymore.
I like wearing bright colors and feminine clothes, but I like a more masculine look, hair and face.
I don’t know, I’m genuinely confused and have yet to tell even my BFF of ten years that’d be hella supportive, even though I really just should because I can’t figure this out myself.
(And I know my family and friends would be totally expecting of me no matter what it was, probably,)
omg this is almost exactly like me i haven’t figured anything out either but i’ve told a few close friends and they are very supportive. i hope you find your gender identity and are able to come out positively to your friend
So for me I am ok with any pronouns but I don’t like to use them I dress in both women and men’s section and I wear “female” perfume and “men” perfume bc they both smell good and I am also bisexual and I don’t know exactly who “me” is in terms of gender terms because I don’t know what I want to be I don’t want to be trans but not only be limited to female ya know I like both styles and I am exploring myself and trying new things and finding what fits me
Have you tried looking more into Demiboy? It’s a mix of transmasc and non binary, uses he/they pronouns, and goes back and forth between he/him and they/them. I’m experimenting with it right now and I feel all the things you’re explaining. Demiboys CAN be feminine at times btw, so don’t feel restricted to masculine or neutral styles. You could be an androgynous demiboy like me!!
Um low key I haven’t read ur whole comment but I’m super scared to come out to anybody…
You got this! If it makes you feel better, I/m hoestly crashing out over my gender too. It’s okay to not tell someone if you’re not ready, and lots of trans people identify as nonbinary or dress in clothes that still slightly allinto the opposite of their preferred gender! Hope this helps!!!
technically you’ve come out to like everyone that sees this XD
omg this is exactly how I feel
IM VERY CONFUSED
I go by, They/Them/She but now I think I’m They/Them…
I identify as gender-fluid but it says I might be nonbinary, now Im questioning my gender
yea i used to go by she/they too but i’m starting to think i’m actually genderfluid..? idk
I think you can and should change and evolve over time.
It’s so weird because it said Stable Gender Identity but I’m FOR SURE gender fluid. This just makes me agitated.
I think I’m genderfluid but this quiz said definitely not! I currently go by Ash or River
i got non binary, but i dont feel any connection to they them pronouns, if anything i dont like them at as it feels like im limiting myself to a thing and not a person. dont know it that makes sense.
I have found that i quite like using he him pronouns, but still feel like a girl alot, so recently ive had my friends switching between the two.
The thing is though, i dont know if thats just the novelty of a new thing or if deep down im doing this for attention or something.
Same, same
It says I’m genderfluid but it just doesn’t sit right with me. I’m so confused about my whole identity and it’s not helping that my parents won’t support
I think that you might be non binary! If genderfluid doesn’t suit you then you might not have fluctuating gender! Just none at all
Mi dispiace che i tuoi non ti sostengano ma per me stare qui in mezzo a noi mi fa già stare meglio e cmq ti consiglio l’arcigay una associazione con cui puoi confidarti ♥️
I also got gender-fluid and I have never been so confused in my life I mean it’s not that much of a shock but still
I’m still so confused. I feel like I’m trans, but I don’t know if I want attention or if I’m just confused. Some days I feel really feminine (doing my hair, makeup, dresses/skirts) and others I feel masculine (boy clothes, messy hair and stuff). The reason I hope I’m not actually trans/ genderfluid is BC my bf is straight and my scared. Can someone help me :/
Also, my parents aren’t against trans ppl or any. They do hate non-binary ppl tho, and I think I do hate gender fluid ppl too..
Scusa ma sei trans e odi i gender fluid? No ,non so proprio come aiutarti
I honestly feel the same way, im sorry I can’t help but just know that there are other people in the world that relate to what you just said.
honey you are NOT just “wanting attention “! whatever and howevee you feel about your gender is VALID!! being “confused” or “wanting” attention is a very harmful right wing narrative created to spread transphobia and hurt trans* people<3
Sappi che soltanto perché ti piacciono i vestiti da maschio non vuol dire che sei trans ,i vestiti e il patriarcato ci fanno credere queste cose ma , non ci sono vestiti mascolini
ive been thinking for a while that i might be genderfluid. the amount of things that have said i am is startling. not alarming though.
it says non-bi o_o
maybe I am??? I have a awesome demi-girl friend and we are pretty similar imo
Daje fratello non binario!
It said I’m not really Gender fluid but I feel genderfluid. pronouns (She/Her/They)
Uhhh im genderfluid just most of these dont aplh to me because I appear more fem or gendernutreal though my gender changes cloths ang objects dont change my gender pluss I dont feel human I feel like an entity controlling my body amd my body is how I project myself but idc about pronouns unless you call me “it” then we about to fight
I got non-binary identity and I have been thinking that that’s what I am and this confirms it! I was just wondering if I can use ze/zir pronouns? Just was wondering if anyone has an answer for me ^^
Gender≠pronouns so yes u can ! You can use whatever pronouns you want !! 😛
Yup! And, if I’m not mistaken, those are called “Neo-pronouns” if you wanna search stuff :3
I already felt that I wasn’t just a girl
But now it’s confirmed<3
♥️
I am a gender fluid and I tried this to see and it said I’m non binary ?? guess I should do more tests…
gust so you know my real name is scarlet/Charlie
Anche io Charlie
I am currently trying to figure out if I’m genderfluid or in serious denial of being transgender and I think this helped a bit! Tysm!
Me too
I’m genderfluid!!! That’s what I thought but I thought I might just take the quiz
I thought i was gender fluid but according to this i am nonbinary. SWEET!
Mi è successa la stessa cosa
This actually feels pretty accurate
Im allergic to perfume wich one do i choose??😭
Forse quelli per bambini sono ipoallergeni non lo so
Just wish i actually could experiment with stuff instead of just thinking about it
Also i know it is off topic but SILKSONG TOMORROW!
Hey you may have seen the comment under Ashby’s comment if you read the one I said after that you would know that was meant for you just wanted to tell you! Sorry I did not mean to comment under the wrong one ;-;
Apparently im nonbinary. cool. 🎺🐍
You might be able to! Try to get your fam to call you something that may feel kinda right and if your fam doesn’t support and/or know try to get your friends to do it! Hope that kinda helps. 😀
Oops meant to put that under Iris’s comment sorry!
I KNEW IT. AUGHHHHH. AUGHHHHHH. GWFVEWGAFJEfjdkjvbjghfkjfbjkFDHUIOSGFHO AUGHHHHHHHHHHH.
i got stable identity but i feel feminine but mind of masculinity
Not binary?
Girl i wanted an answer not a “You are still exploring” LIKE PLEASE I NEED AN ANSWER
Who likes the name Bailey? Soz it’s random
Io lo adoro!
Whoops accidentally put Amelia’s
I have been researching for a while and think I am gender fluid. Several tests at different times have said agender or nonbiary , which does sometimes feel right, but a test can only say so much.
Pretty much on the money, I was just killing time, your test result surprised me in how accurate it was. Wow! 👍
It said I was genderfluid. I’ve been identifying as nonbinary for a little while but I feel like genderfluid is better. It’s kinda like nonbinary sounds right for me, but gender fluid FEELS right
Been identifying as Genderfluid for over 5 years now and said I was “gender exploring” weird
I feel like I’d like to change genders sometimes so I’m pretty sure I’m gender fluid. It’s a quiz so I’m not gonna let it affect my choices in life
True that.
i got gender fluid
genderfluidd
i already knew i was genderfluid, i was jst confirming loll
real</3
YESSSSSSSSSSS!!!!!!!!!! in genderfluid!!!!!!!
omg! im on the last question! im so scared!!
i feel 100% genderfluid, but im so scared to look at the results!!
I’m proudly gender fluid
Yep that’s me a genderfulid :3
this didn’t really help. just said I’m gender exploring and need to keep looking. I’ve been questioning for 1 year and still don’t know what I identify as. does anyone have any tips or suggestions that could help me?
Do you often feel multiple or no genders? Does it change? Ask yourself these questions and see if they match
È molto probabile che tu sia gender fluid però anche tutte le altre identificazioni
Said I was Nonbinary, yet I’m fine with She/Her, or They/Them, Idgaf as long as it’s not It, or Masculine pronouns
Yeah!!! That’s a form of non binary!!!!!!! ^^
I actually love being called It. Is that weird?
Nope! I do too! To each their own ^^
This comment is so old, but I believe Ur a demi girl!! (She/they)
im new to this but genderfluid feels right tho
Said I was Gender fluid which did feel quite right
Cool
This is making me so freaking nervous
How do I know if I´m non binary but all genders or gender fluid?
If you’re nb you feel that way all the time I think and if you’re gender fluid it depends on like the day
Nice
said i was nonbinary, which does often feel right, but i’m really genderfluid (she/he/they, almost always overlap lol)
same hear
same
Same
Same
I got the same result, and I also think I might be genderfluid :3
Same
I’m genderfluid but I sometimes don’t feel like choosing my gender for the day so it’s a bit non binary
same
Same
Same
Hey weird thing but U have the same name as me and I go by she/they still experimenting tho and nobody knows my name is quin cos people still use my dead name
Sameeee
nice
i love demon slayer !!!!
I love your username I love Demon Slayer so much 😀
huh, neat
Cool
Sono tipo l’unico della scuola non binario e mi sento sempre un pesce fuor d’acqua,ho i miei amici ma non sarà mai la stessa cosa , quindi se vivete a Genova e avete tra i 16 e i 12 anni scrivetemi
Vi prego,vorrei solo un amico vero.
Please I don’t wanna be the only wimpy kid
Am I the only Italian here ?
Can you write again with me ?
I am so alone !!