Am I Pansexual Quiz: Do You See People, Not Genders?

Last Updated 22.01.26

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This quiz is for entertainment only and cannot determine your sexuality or gender identity. It is not a diagnostic tool and shouldn't guide major life decisions. For genuine support with identity questions, please consult qualified LGBTQ+-friendly professionals. Your self-discovery journey is uniquely yours.

Pansexuality is a sexual orientation characterized by potential attraction to people regardless of their biological sex, gender identity, or gender expression. The term comes from the Greek prefix “pan-” meaning “all.” Pansexuals often describe this as “falling in love with personality, not gender” – where gender is not a determining factor in attraction. It’s important to understand that having potential attraction to any gender doesn’t mean attraction to every person. This pansexual quiz can help you explore whether this orientation resonates with your experiences.

Common signs the quiz examines include gender-neutral attraction where a person’s gender isn’t the primary factor, comfort with gender diversity (cisgender, transgender, non-binary, genderfluid people), focus on emotional connection over physical characteristics, and fluid preferences that are difficult to define in traditional terms. Many pansexuals feel that binary labels like “straight,” “gay,” or even “bi” seem too limiting.

Pansexuality differs from bisexuality in that it emphasizes “gender blindness” in attraction, while bisexuals may experience attraction to different genders differently. This quiz offers a starting point for self-exploration and understanding your unique experience with attraction.

Questions Overview

1. If you're asked to describe your "type", what would you say?

I have a specific gender that I'm usually attracted to.
It depends on the person's personality, regardless of their gender.
Gender doesn't play a big role in my attractions.
I often find myself attracted to people of multiple genders, but not all.

2. Your best friend comes out as non-binary, how do you feel?

You are supportive, but it doesn't change your feelings towards them.
Your feelings towards them could change, becoming more attracted to them.
You are supportive, but you can't imagine being attracted to them.
Your feelings don't change as you were already attracted to them.

3. Imagine attending a social event. What catches your eye first?

A person's physical features that you generally find attractive.
The gender of the person.
The personality and charisma of the person, regardless of their gender.
Whether the person seems approachable or not.

4. How open are you to exploring your sexual orientation?

Very open; I believe sexuality is fluid.
I'm a bit hesitant but open to the idea.
Not at all; I am confident in my current identification.
I've never really thought about it.

5. You're drawn to someone due to their intellect. Their gender is...

Irrelevant. You're attracted to intelligence, regardless of gender.
The same as yours.
Different from yours.
A specific gender that you're usually attracted to.

6. How do you feel about labels when it comes to sexual orientation?

They're useful but limited and not all-encompassing.
They're essential; everyone fits into one label or another.
I don't believe in labels; love is love.
They're good for others, but personally, I don't need one.

7. A close friend tells you they've started to identify as genderqueer. Your immediate thought is...

That's awesome; I might be even more attracted to them now.
That's great; I support them but don't feel a shift in attraction.
I'm supportive but can't imagine being attracted to them now.
I don't think this would affect my feelings towards them.

8. You've met someone who's truly kind-hearted. Does their gender matter in terms of your attraction to them?

Not at all. If we click, we click!
Yes, I generally lean towards specific genders.
I'm unsure; it's a case-by-case basis.
It might; I haven't explored this aspect before.

9. When it comes to romantic or sexual attraction, you prioritize...

The individual's personality and values.
Their gender and how they identify.
Physical attractiveness, regardless of gender.
It varies; I don't have a fixed pattern.

10. Have you ever felt attracted to someone outside of the gender binary?

Yes, gender has no bearing on who I'm attracted to.
I've never been in such a situation, but I wouldn't rule it out.
No, I have a fixed preference for certain genders.
I'm not sure, but I'm open to the possibility.

11. A celebrity you've always admired comes out as transgender. How do you react?

I'm still attracted to them; their gender doesn't affect my feelings.
I'm happy for them but it doesn't influence my attraction.
It's difficult for me to feel attracted to them now.
I'm not sure, but it doesn't change my admiration for them.

12. Your favorite fictional character reveals they're agender. Does your affection for them change?

No, I still feel the same way about them.
I feel even more connected and potentially attracted to them now.
I can't imagine feeling attracted to them.
It doesn't affect me either way.

13. How often do you consider a person's gender when evaluating your attraction to them?

Almost never.
Sometimes, but it's not the only factor.
Frequently; it's a significant factor.
It depends on the situation and the person.

14. Your romantic partner tells you they're questioning their gender identity. Your first thought is...

We'll figure it out together, my attraction to them won't change.
I'd support them, but unsure about how my feelings might evolve.
I worry about the implications for our relationship.
It's their journey, but I don't think it would affect my attraction.

15. Which statement best describes your understanding of gender?

Gender is fluid and exists on a spectrum.
Gender is binary - male or female.
I'm open to the idea of non-binary genders but haven't explored much.
I believe in multiple genders, not just male and female.

16. How do you feel about the idea of being attracted to all genders?

Completely comfortable and even relate to it.
I'm open to it, but unsure if it describes me.
I struggle with the concept personally.
It's something I've considered but not fully explored.

17. When thinking about future relationships, you imagine your partner could be...

Anyone of any gender, it doesn't matter to me.
A specific gender you're generally attracted to.
Multiple genders, but not all.
Uncertain, you haven't thought that far ahead.

18. If a friend were to suggest you might be pansexual, how would you react?

Agree; it's something I've considered or identify with.
Be open to the possibility and consider it further.
Dismiss it; I'm certain about my sexual orientation.
Be surprised; I've never considered that before.

19. Have you ever questioned your sexual orientation?

Yes, and I'm open to all possibilities.
Yes, but I'm still unsure.
No, I've always known my preferences.
I've had moments of doubt, but I haven't explored it deeply.

20. How does the term "pansexual" resonate with you?

It feels right; it could describe me.
I'm not sure, I need to learn more about it.
It doesn't apply to me.
It's possible, but I need to think about it.

James Wilson

James Wilson holds a Ph.D. in Psychology from Columbia University, where he specializes in human sexuality research. With 12 years of clinical experience counseling individuals exploring their sexual orientation, he has authored two books on sexual identity development. Dr. Wilson serves on the board of the American Psychological Association's Division 44 and frequently conducts workshops for healthcare providers on culturally competent care for LGBTQ+ individuals.

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Anonymous

12 days ago

Hello everyone, When I First Took This Quiz I Was Very Insecure And Confused, Now That I Have Looked Into It I More Understand Myself And Have Learned To Love It ❤. I Still Haven’t Come Out To My Parents Or Older Siblings Yet But In The Future I Hope To.
I Highly Recommend This Quiz-It Helped Me Find Who I Am.
-Sincerely, Proud Pansexual.