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Am I Nonbinary Quiz: Neither, Both, or In-Between?
Last Updated 22.01.26
○ DISCLAIMER
This quiz is for entertainment only and cannot determine your sexuality or gender identity. It is not a diagnostic tool and shouldn't guide major life decisions. For genuine support with identity questions, please consult qualified LGBTQ+-friendly professionals. Your self-discovery journey is uniquely yours.
Nonbinary is an umbrella term for gender identities that don’t fit into the traditional binary system of “man/woman.” It’s not a “third gender” but an entire spectrum of unique ways to experience gender. Nonbinary people have always existed across cultures – from two-spirit people in Native American communities to hijra in India. This nonbinary quiz can help you explore whether your gender identity falls outside the binary.
Common signs the quiz examines include discomfort with binary gender categories, gender dysphoria (distress from mismatch between internal sense and perception) or gender euphoria (joy when your gender is recognized), and fluidity in how you experience gender. The quiz also considers your relationship to your body, language preferences like pronouns (many nonbinary people use they/them), and comfort with social gender roles and expectations.
Nonbinary identity is diverse and includes agender (no connection to gender), bigender (experiencing two genders), demigender (partial identification), genderfluid (changing gender experience), and many others. This quiz isn’t a diagnosis but a tool for self-discovery. Whatever your results, only you can determine your true gender identity.
Questions Overview
1. How do you feel about traditional gender roles?
- I love them! They make me feel secure and comfortable.
- I don't think about them much.
- I find them limiting and restrictive.
- I actively reject them and prefer to live outside of them.
2. How do you feel about gendered spaces, like bathrooms or locker rooms?
- I don't think about it much. I just use whatever space corresponds to my gender.
- It's not a big deal to me, but I understand why some people might be uncomfortable.
- I feel uncomfortable in gendered spaces and wish there were more options available.
- I actively avoid gendered spaces whenever possible.
3. How do you feel about your body?
- I love it! It's perfect the way it is.
- It's just a body. I don't really think about it much.
- There are some things I wish were different, but overall, I'm fine with it.
- I'm really uncomfortable with certain parts of my body, and I wish I could change them.
4. How do you feel about being referred to as "he" or "she"?
- I love it! It fits me perfectly.
- It's fine, but I don't really care.
- It bothers me a little bit, but I don't say anything.
- It makes me uncomfortable, and I would rather people use different pronouns for me.
5. How do you feel about your personal style?
- I stick to traditional gender norms and dress accordingly.
- I don't think about it much. I just wear what's comfortable.
- I like to mix and match different styles, regardless of gender.
- I actively reject traditional gender norms and dress in a way that feels authentic to me.
6. How do you feel about your voice?
- I love it! It's perfect the way it is.
- It's just a voice. I don't really think about it much.
- I wish it was higher or lower pitched, but it's not a big deal.
- I'm really uncomfortable with my voice, and I wish I could change it.
7. How do you feel about your name?
- I love it! It perfectly fits my gender identity.
- It's just a name. I don't really think about it much.
- I feel like my name doesn't really match who I am.
- I actively dislike my name and wish I could choose something different.
8. How do you feel about gender-neutral pronouns like "they/them"?
- I don't really understand why anyone would use them.
- I'm fine with them, but I don't really use them myself.
- I like the idea of them, but I'm not sure if they fit me personally.
- I actively use gender-neutral pronouns to describe myself.
9. How do you feel about your gender identity?
- I identify completely with the gender I was assigned at birth.
- I don't really think about my gender identity that much.
- I feel like my gender identity is more fluid than just male or female.
- I actively identify as a gender other than male or female.
10. How do you feel about the idea of gender itself?
- I think gender is really important and defines who we are as people.
- I don't really think about it much.
- I think gender is a social construct and doesn't necessarily define who we are as people.
- I actively reject the idea of gender altogether.
11. How do you feel about the way society views gender?
- I think society has it right when it comes to gender.
- I don't really think about it much.
- I think society has some things right, but there are a lot of things that need to change.
- I actively reject the way society views gender.
12. How do you feel about gender expression in media and pop culture?
- I love seeing traditional gender roles represented in media.
- I don't really think about it much.
- I appreciate seeing more diverse gender expressions in media and pop culture.
- I actively seek out media and pop culture that represents a more diverse range of gender expressions.
13. How do you feel about being in relationships with people of different genders?
- I prefer to date people who identify as the opposite gender.
- I don't really have a preference when it comes to gender.
- I like to date people who identify as a similar gender to myself.
- I actively seek out relationships with people who identify as a different gender than male or female.
14. How do you feel about being part of the nonbinary community?
- I don't really understand the nonbinary community.
- I'm fine with the nonbinary community, but I don't really feel like I'm part of it.
- I appreciate the nonbinary community and feel like I have a place within it.
- I actively identify as part of the nonbinary community and feel connected to it.
Michael Chen
Michael Chen completed his Ph.D. in Gender Studies at Yale University and now leads transgender health initiatives at Boston Medical Center. His research on gender identity development has been featured in leading medical journals and informed policy development for transgender healthcare access. Dr. Chen draws from his academic expertise to create educational content that promotes understanding of diverse gender expressions and identities.
I am nonbinary, but nobody use they/them for me. Soooo…but I guess the test could have updates
It’s odd because I don’t mind being called ‘sir’ or ‘he/him’ but whenever I do some activity and someone labels it as a man-activity it annoys me. Or whenever men as a group are mentioned or portrayed in media or conversations I barely feel like belonging to that social group. And not in the sense of ‘I’m not like other men’ but in the sense of ‘I really don’t know why I would relate to these other random people because of some made up thing’.
I really hate when people call me a girl…. but I hate masc labels too tbh. enby suits me the most??? no
xenogenders work
tbh i think its right…
i rlly dont feel like the gender i was born as, but i tend to act feminine sometimes, and also masculine… it makes me think i might indentify as genderfluid rather than nonbinary, but i think the enby fits me mostly.. im also scared that one day ill realise im not an enby after all and all the process ive done so far to change (voice training, name changeing etc.) had been for nothing. ppl dont support me at home so its hard to even try sometimes to defend myself, guys im so sad
so i used to think i was a boy and i hated it, turns out i am non-binary, i now also changed my name to eahani cause i dont really like using my boys name
I hated being a girl and thought I was weird at but I found out im nonbinary!
yeah me too
any tips on knowing for sure if them/they is right and what do you guys think about the name ace
sounds cool mate
Now i really wanna come out as nonbianariy but im not sure what my folks would say
this quiz got me mad about my voice, but it’s just a quiz 🙂
the other quiz said the same..
you are nonbinay weezo
i´m questioning my gender help.i think its right..
I feel the same way sib it just works that way i feel you i will keep you in my prideful prayers
NonBinary is my middle name
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