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Quiz: Am I Heteroflexible?

Last Updated 22.01.26

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This quiz is for entertainment only and cannot determine your sexuality or gender identity. It is not a diagnostic tool and shouldn't guide major life decisions. For genuine support with identity questions, please consult qualified LGBTQ+-friendly professionals. Your self-discovery journey is uniquely yours.

Am I Heteroflexible Quiz

Heteroflexibility is a sexual orientation where a person predominantly experiences attraction to the opposite sex but sometimes may feel interest or attraction to their own sex. This isn’t an “experimental phase” – it’s a complete, valid orientation reflecting the natural fluidity of human sexuality. Research since the 1940s shows sexuality exists on a continuum, and heteroflexible people typically fall in the 1-2 range on the Kinsey scale (predominantly heterosexual with incidental same-sex attraction). If your sexuality doesn’t fit rigid frameworks and you’ve experienced occasional same-sex attraction alongside predominantly opposite-sex interest, this heteroflexible quiz explores your orientation.

The quiz examines patterns of sporadic same-sex attraction that arise unexpectedly, emotional openness to acknowledging atypical feelings, and content of your fantasies including same-sex scenarios. It also considers your reactions to same-sex representation in media and whether you’ve experienced past attractions to your own sex that you dismissed as admiration. Heteroflexibility differs from bisexuality in intensity (95/5 versus more balanced attraction) and often involves sexual curiosity without romantic interest in same-sex relationships. Your sexuality can evolve or remain stable – both are equally valid.

Questions Overview

1. When watching a romance movie, what typically catches your eye?
  1. The opposite gender character exclusively.
  2. Mostly the opposite gender, but sometimes I find myself drawn to the same gender.
  3. Whichever actor/actress has the most charisma, irrespective of gender.
  4. The plot! Who cares about the actors?
2. At a party, someone of the same gender flirts with you. Your reaction is:
  1. Politely decline; it's just not my thing.
  2. Flattered, and I might entertain the thought, even if just for a moment.
  3. Flirt back—it's fun and who knows where it might lead?
  4. I'm more concerned about the snack table.
3. Describe your past crushes:
  1. All have been strictly of the opposite gender.
  2. Mostly opposite gender, but there have been one or two exceptions.
  3. A colorful mix of genders—variety is the spice of life!
  4. Crushes? I’m still trying to figure out my favorite ice cream flavor.
4. Your best friend says they've experimented with the same gender. Your reaction is:
  1. That's not something I'd ever consider.
  2. I've thought about it once or twice.
  3. Been there, done that!
  4. As long as they're happy and safe, it's all good.
5. How often do you challenge societal norms?
  1. Rarely, I mostly fit into the mold.
  2. Occasionally, when it feels right.
  3. Regularly, it's just who I am.
  4. Only when I wear socks with sandals.
6. Someone asks your type in terms of attraction. You say:
  1. Strictly opposite gender.
  2. Mostly opposite gender, but I don't rule anything out.
  3. I have no type; it's about the person's vibe.
  4. Someone who loves pizza as much as I do.
7. Which song lyric resonates with you most?
  1. "I see only you."
  2. "I walk a fine line between love and lust."
  3. "Love is love, no matter the gender."
  4. "Can we focus on the beat instead?"
8. How do you feel about labels in sexuality?
  1. They help define who I am.
  2. They can be restrictive, but sometimes useful.
  3. Why box in something so fluid?
  4. Labels are for jars, not people. But also, I like jam.
9. When daydreaming, who stars in your romantic scenarios?
  1. Always someone of the opposite gender.
  2. Mostly opposite gender, but sometimes the same.
  3. Could be anyone - it's more about the scenario than the person.
  4. I usually daydream about food or flying.
10. Have you ever felt romantic tension with a friend of the same gender?
  1. Never.
  2. Once or twice, but I brushed it off.
  3. Absolutely, and I've even acted on it.
  4. Tension? Only when they borrowed my favorite shirt.
11. Which statement feels most true to you?
  1. I am firmly set in my attractions.
  2. Sometimes, life surprises you.
  3. Love and attraction are complex, multifaceted feelings.
  4. The only true love is chocolate.
12. In discussions about sexuality, you find yourself:
  1. Firm in identifying as heterosexual.
  2. Curious about experiences outside of traditional heterosexuality.
  3. Open to the spectrum of possibilities.
  4. Just hoping there are snacks after the discussion.
13. Which best describes your views on love?
  1. Love is strictly between opposite genders for me.
  2. I lean towards the opposite gender, but who knows what the future holds?
  3. Love is boundless and knows no gender.
  4. Love is a warm, cheesy pizza.
14. How often do you find yourself questioning your own sexuality?
  1. Never, I’m pretty sure of myself.
  2. Every once in a while, when something piques my interest.
  3. Often - it's an ongoing journey of discovery.
  4. Only when I binge-watch romance series.
15. A magical genie offers to let you experience love from a completely different perspective for a day. You:
  1. Decline. Happy with where I'm at!
  2. Are curious, but hesitant.
  3. Jump at the chance - new experiences are always enlightening!
  4. Ask if the genie has any food instead.

James Wilson
James Wilson
James Wilson holds a Ph.D. in Psychology from Columbia University, where he specializes in human sexuality research. With 12 years of clinical experience counseling individuals exploring their sexual orientation, he has authored two books on sexual identity development. Dr. Wilson serves on the board of the American Psychological Association's Division 44 and frequently conducts workshops for healthcare providers on culturally competent care for LGBTQ+ individuals.

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dead wife
dead wife
21 days ago

it’s nice. Just the usual quiz, tho i wish they had more options

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TS13
TS13
3 months ago

I am heteroflexible, how dare they say I’m not or “not leaning toward it”. Bro.

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Bogs21
Bogs21
6 months ago

I dont feel like it had the right options they were assuming i feel mostly attracted to the opposite gender and there wasn’t any oth options that suited me so that was rlly frustrating they shouldn’t have assumed. Disappointed

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Bubb's
Bubb's
11 months ago

I think this was very accurate

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