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Am I Bisexual Quiz: Boys, Girls, or Both?
Last Updated 22.01.26
○ DISCLAIMER
This quiz is for entertainment only and cannot determine your sexuality or gender identity. It is not a diagnostic tool and shouldn't guide major life decisions. For genuine support with identity questions, please consult qualified LGBTQ+-friendly professionals. Your self-discovery journey is uniquely yours.
Bisexuality is a sexual orientation where a person experiences emotional, romantic, and/or sexual attraction to people of more than one gender. This attraction doesn’t follow a “50-50” formula – it can be asymmetrical, fluid, and change throughout life. Research shows that bisexuals make up the largest group within the LGBTQ+ community, yet many people struggle to recognize or accept this part of their identity due to social stigma. This bisexual quiz can help you explore these feelings and better understand yourself.
Common signs the quiz evaluates include experiencing emotional attraction to different genders, recurring fantasies involving people of various genders, and internal questions about your orientation. Many bisexuals describe a “bi-cycle” – periodic fluctuations in attraction intensity that can feel confusing but are completely normal. It’s important to understand that bisexuality isn’t “just a phase,” you don’t need sexual experience with multiple genders to identify as bisexual, and being attracted to multiple genders doesn’t mean you can’t be faithful in relationships.
If you’re questioning your orientation, remember that self-discovery is a process. There’s no rush to label yourself, and your feelings are valid however they manifest. Take the quiz to reflect on your experiences and gain clarity about your identity.
Questions Overview
1. Thinking about your teenage idols, you notice that:
- You had posters of different celebrities but never thought about why
- You were equally inspired by people of different genders
- You had one special idol of the opposite sex, but you 'admired' some of your own
- You had idols exclusively of the opposite sex
2. In romantic movies, you usually:
- Care about any couple if their chemistry is convincing
- Can imagine yourself in relationships with main characters regardless of their gender
- Sometimes catch yourself thinking about the attractiveness of same-sex characters
- Only pay attention to romantic storylines with the opposite sex
3. At parties, you notice that:
- You flirt with people regardless of their gender if there's attraction
- You feel equally comfortable receiving attention from different people
- You mostly flirt with the opposite sex, but sometimes there's a spark with someone of your gender
- You only interact romantically with the opposite sex
4. In relationships, what attracts you most is:
- A person's unique energy regardless of gender
- A combination of qualities that can be found in any gender
- Traditional gender qualities, but sometimes exceptions surprise you
- Classic traits of the opposite sex
5. In intimate fantasies:
- Gender doesn't play a role, only the connection matters
- There are different scenarios with different people
- Main focus is on the opposite sex, but there are exceptions
- You always imagine the opposite sex
6. In past relationships:
- You saw no difference in the depth of feelings towards people of different genders
- You noticed you fell in love with personality, not gender
- Mostly hetero relationships, but there were special friendships
- You only had heterosexual relationships
7. When meeting new people:
- You feel attraction to personality regardless of gender
- You notice attractiveness of different people equally often
- You're mostly attracted to the opposite sex, but there are exceptions
- You only notice the opposite sex
8. In close friendships:
- You see no difference between friendships with different genders
- You can experience deep emotional connections regardless of gender
- You notice some friendly feelings are hard to define
- You clearly separate friendship from romantic attraction
9. Regarding physical attractiveness:
- Beauty has no gender for you
- You equally notice attractiveness in different people
- Sometimes you're surprised by your reaction to people of your gender
- You only find the opposite sex attractive
10. In sexual scenes in media:
- You notice chemistry between characters regardless of their gender
- You react equally to attractive characters of any gender
- Sometimes you unexpectedly get engaged in same-sex scenes
- You're only interested in scenes with the opposite sex
11. In dreams about future relationships:
- You imagine different scenarios without attachment to partner's gender
- You see yourself happy with different people
- You mostly imagine traditional relationships, but there are exceptions
- You always imagine traditional relationships with the opposite sex
12. In moments of emotional intimacy:
- A person's gender doesn't affect the depth of connection
- You can feel equally strong connections with different people
- Sometimes you're surprised by the depth of feelings towards people of your gender
- Emotional intimacy is only possible with the opposite sex
13. During periods of loneliness, you miss:
- Specific people regardless of their gender
- Different types of relationships and connections
- Mostly opposite-sex relationships, but there are exceptions
- Exclusively relationships with the opposite sex
14. Regarding jealousy:
- You get jealous of anyone who attracts your partner's interest
- You experience jealousy regardless of the other person's gender
- You're more jealous of the opposite sex, but sometimes your reaction surprises you
- You only get jealous of members of the opposite sex
15. Regarding physical touch:
- Comfort depends on the person, not their gender
- You react equally to pleasant touches from different people
- You usually prefer opposite-sex touches, but there are exceptions
- You're only comfortable with touches from the opposite sex
16. When falling in love:
- You fall for a person without thinking about gender
- You notice similar feelings towards different people
- Sometimes you're surprised by who you're attracted to
- You only fall in love with the opposite sex
17. In matters of loyalty:
- Faithfulness doesn't depend on partner's gender
- You're equally devoted in any relationship
- Sometimes you're unsure about what constitutes cheating
- You have clear boundaries in traditional relationships
18. In long-term plans:
- You see the possibility of happiness with different people
- You plan your future based on feelings, not partner's gender
- You imagine a traditional future but allow for exceptions
- You only see traditional marriage with the opposite sex
Morgan Taylor
Morgan Taylor holds a Ph.D. in Gender and Sexuality Studies from UC Berkeley, where she serves as an associate professor in Sociology. With over 15 years researching LGBTQ+ history and community development, Dr. Taylor has published in academic journals and worked as an educational consultant for organizations like GLAAD and The Trevor Project. Outside academia, she mentors LGBTQ+ youth and speaks at conferences, believing that education creates more inclusive communities.
It’s not a bad quiz, I just wish there were aro/ace-friendly answers to the questions regarding relationships (because I’m aro and didn’t know what i should’ve chosen on some questions lol)
THIS!! I’ve never been into relationships(yet or never) or parties so answering some questions were hard,
The meeting new people question is also hard for me
i think i am bi curious male but probably its a false alarm…as per quiz i am hetro flexible
.. Happy with result even tho I’m a Christian doesn’t stop my heart from loving also I’m bi
The bisexual erasure is real. I’m honestly tired of being called pansexual, I am bisexual. We like more than one gender, not only women and men.
This is a bi-tiful quiz!
I pray in the name of Jesus that this gets reported
I pray that I will confess my sins to Jesus and never be Bi again. I give you holy water and go to church every Sunday, people, cuz this is disgusting.
In the end love wins if anything you can shut the hell up maybe you are in love with opposite but you don’t need to post shit like this i hope you stop leaving hateful comments i’m bi and proud. Clearly you are just so insecure about yourself and you have to hate on others. How childish can you be i hope you go to hell i am a nice person but not to people like you, tell me ill go to hell guess what i will im not hating on myself for loving who i love.
You tell that idiot, I’m bi to I totally get this that basted Olivia can go to hell and they better hope they don’t meat me I’m a nice guy usually but that guys a dick they pissed me of😤😤😤
First of all, what do you mean again? And just because you’re religious doesn’t mean that you need to push those beliefs on to others. I am disgusted at you for thinking god would condone this kind of behavior. People can love whoever they want, and that is none of your business, so how about instead of wasting your time hating on other people, how about you go do something actually productive with your life, like educating yourself on the LGBTQIA+ community. Or like, shutting the hell up and minding your own god damn business.
I understand that you may be religious but you are kind of being a dick, and just because u believe in something doesn’t mean that you need to push your religion on others because you think something is “wrong or sinful”. Not everyone has the same beliefs as you.
I got pan I’m ten but I’ve been told I’m not really anything yet by my own father but I thought I was bi well I didn’t care if the person is trans as long as they are a good person
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