Abrosexual Quiz: Chameleon of Love?

Last Updated 22.01.26

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This quiz is for entertainment only and cannot determine your sexuality or gender identity. It is not a diagnostic tool and shouldn't guide major life decisions. For genuine support with identity questions, please consult qualified LGBTQ+-friendly professionals. Your self-discovery journey is uniquely yours.

Does your sexual attraction feel like ocean tides – sometimes flowing strongly toward one gender, then shifting completely to another, or even receding into periods where attraction disappears entirely? If you’ve struggled to explain why your orientation seems to transform over time rather than remaining stable, this abrosexual quiz explores whether your sexuality operates on a fluid, cyclical pattern. Abrosexuality describes an orientation where attraction regularly changes between different genders or fluctuates between presence and absence. This isn’t indecision or experimentation – it’s an innate characteristic where your “sexual seasons” naturally shift, sometimes over days, weeks, months, or years.

The quiz identifies key patterns: whether you experience cyclical changes in who attracts you, if these shifts feel profound and almost physical rather than subtle preference adjustments, whether you go through distinct asexual phases with no attraction at all, and how these transformations affect your emotional state and relationships. Abrosexuality differs fundamentally from bisexuality or pansexuality – while those orientations involve stable attraction to multiple genders, abrosexuality means your entire orientation transforms, like completely changing your preferences rather than simply choosing different options within consistent tastes. Many abrosexual people describe the confusion of being attracted exclusively to women one month, then finding only men attractive the next, then entering a phase where gender becomes irrelevant or attraction vanishes.

This quiz helps validate experiences that can feel isolating in a world expecting stable sexual identity, offering language and community for understanding your beautifully changeable nature.

Questions Overview

1. How often does your sexual attraction towards others change?
  1. Pretty much never. It’s stable
  2. Only when there’s a significant event in my life
  3. Occasionally, but not daily
  4. Like the weather—unpredictable and ever-changing!
2. You're watching a series, and you have a crush on a character. A few episodes later...
  1. I still have the same crush intensity
  2. I might find someone else attractive, but it's related to their character development
  3. I've shifted my attention to another character, but it’s rare
  4. I’ve had crushes on multiple characters already!
3. How would you describe your sexual attraction over the past year?
  1. Constant and predictable
  2. There were one or two noticeable shifts
  3. It's been a roller-coaster of feelings!
  4. A kaleidoscope of ever-changing attractions
4. Your friend describes their celebrity crush to you. Your reaction is...
  1. "Oh, I’ve never felt attracted to them."
  2. "I used to find them attractive a while back."
  3. "Last week, yes! This week, not so much."
  4. "Ask me in an hour; it might change!"
5. What phrase resonates with you the most?
  1. Steady as a beating drum
  2. Sometimes the winds change direction
  3. It’s like surfing different waves
  4. Dancing to a different tune every day!
6. If you had a diary tracking your attractions, it would read like...
  1. A single-themed novel
  2. A book with a couple of plot twists
  3. A short story collection
  4. A daily mood ring's diary
7. How do you feel about labels for your sexuality?
  1. I’ve found one that fits and stuck with it
  2. They’re comforting but can sometimes feel restricting
  3. I use a few interchangeably
  4. Labels? More like suggestions for the hour!
8. Your favorite season is...
  1. Always been the same one
  2. Changed maybe once or twice in my life
  3. Depends on my mood each year
  4. Seasons? I’m changing faster than they are!
9. How do you explain your sexual attraction to others?
  1. It's pretty simple and consistent
  2. There's a general pattern, with a few exceptions
  3. It's fluid and can be a bit unpredictable
  4. I need a whiteboard, markers, and possibly interpretive dance
10. In a group of friends, when discussing types and attractions...
  1. I always have a consistent type
  2. I've explored a bit, but mostly have a specific type
  3. My type varies depending on my current phase
  4. What’s a type? I’m redefining mine all the time!
11. Your playlist for love songs...
  1. Reflects one specific feeling or mood
  2. Has a few diverse tracks thrown in
  3. It’s a blend of genres and moods
  4. Is on shuffle and changes weekly!
12. You're asked to wear a color that represents your sexuality for a day. You choose...
  1. One solid color
  2. A color that sometimes shifts shades
  3. A gradient of multiple hues
  4. A tie-dye explosion!
13. Your attraction feels most like...
  1. A lifelong novel
  2. A trilogy series
  3. A magazine with various articles
  4. An unpredictable choose-your-own-adventure book
14. If you were a painter, your work would be...
  1. Mostly monochromatic paintings
  2. A few varied pieces among a consistent theme
  3. Collections that shift in style and color
  4. Every canvas wildly different from the last
15. When thinking about your future partner(s), you envision...
  1. A very specific kind of person
  2. Generally one type, but open to some changes
  3. Whoever I might be attracted to in that phase of life
  4. Who knows? The sky's the limit!

Morgan Taylor
Morgan Taylor
Morgan Taylor holds a Ph.D. in Gender and Sexuality Studies from UC Berkeley, where she serves as an associate professor in Sociology. With over 15 years researching LGBTQ+ history and community development, Dr. Taylor has published in academic journals and worked as an educational consultant for organizations like GLAAD and The Trevor Project. Outside academia, she mentors LGBTQ+ youth and speaks at conferences, believing that education creates more inclusive communities.

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Idk I’m figuring it out
Idk I’m figuring it out
1 month ago

So I’m girlflux, abrosexual, and demisexual????? IM SUCH A HUGE MESS OH AND IM CLOSETED

~Apple~
~Apple~
1 month ago

I’ve been questioning if i’m abrosexual for a week now. my entire life i’ve been straight, then this summer i changed to bi, one point for a day was lesbian, and i was questioning demisexual for a month. this test really helped me figure stuff out.

itouchkids
itouchkids
2 months ago

i went from bi to lesbain to trans to gay then stright so this helps a lot

hawk tuah
hawk tuah
2 months ago

kaleidoscope?? ok

fan
fan
4 months ago

im a flowing river

tia
tia
4 months ago

i knew it i always like diffrent genders

K@! :)
K@! :)
4 months ago

The hell is flowing river supposed to mean? ;skull;

Linn
Linn
4 months ago

I knew i was already abro I just wanted to see

Nicholas
Nicholas
4 months ago

Uhm..am I or am I not abrosexual..?

Basilsage
Basilsage
4 months ago

question mark;)

Xio
Xio
5 months ago

Where Are the results???

Axolotl
Axolotl
5 months ago

I had a feeling already

Nonexistent
Nonexistent
6 months ago

I’m abro, I knew this. I had to hunt down this test since I couldn’t find one-

What??
What??
6 months ago

Where’s the result??

Catherine💗💗
Catherine💗💗
8 months ago

im so damn confused

Anaa
Anaa
4 months ago

same omgggg

Gemmz
Gemmz
8 months ago

Uh