06.01.25
Quiz: What Are My Pronouns?
Last Updated 22.01.26
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This quiz is for entertainment only and cannot determine your sexuality or gender identity. It is not a diagnostic tool and shouldn't guide major life decisions. For genuine support with identity questions, please consult qualified LGBTQ+-friendly professionals. Your self-discovery journey is uniquely yours.
If you’ve ever felt uncomfortable when someone uses certain pronouns for you, or you’re curious about which pronouns truly resonate with your identity, this pronoun quiz can help you explore. Pronouns aren’t just grammatical tools – they’re deeply connected to how we perceive ourselves and how we want to be seen by others. Research shows that when someone uses the wrong pronouns, it activates brain regions associated with processing pain, which explains why getting pronouns right matters so much. Whether you’re questioning which pronouns feel authentic, exploring options beyond he/him and she/her, or simply want clarity about your preferences, this quiz offers a structured way to reflect on your identity.
Our quiz examines three key dimensions: your internal sense of self, how you want to present socially, and which words create that feeling of “yes, that’s me.” The results span traditional options like he/him and she/her, gender-neutral they/them, neopronouns like ze/zir or xe/xem, nature-inspired fae/faer, fluid combinations, or comfort with any pronouns. Each option represents a valid way of expressing identity, from those who feel aligned with traditional gender categories to those whose experience exists outside the binary system entirely.
Taking this quiz is an act of self-discovery, helping you find language that reflects your authentic self and creates alignment between your internal experience and external expression.
Questions Overview
1. How do you respond when someone uses incorrect pronouns when addressing you?
- Politely correct and explain the proper form
- Discuss it with my support group
- Use it as an educational opportunity
- Suggest exploring modern forms of address
2. Which pronoun situation in formal documents concerns you most?
- Limited to only 'he/she' options
- Inability to use gender-neutral forms
- Lack of recognition for new gender pronouns
- Technical limitations in digital forms
3. How do you prefer to display your pronouns on social media?
- Traditional format in bio
- Using hashtags and group tags
- Creating unique descriptive forms
- Experimenting with new display formats
4. How do you feel about introducing yourself in a new group?
- Confidently state my pronouns
- Appreciate when everyone shares their pronouns
- Use it to normalize different forms
- Propose innovative approaches to introductions
5. What's your stance on using gender-neutral pronouns in literature?
- Support traditional he/she usage
- Advocate for singular they usage
- Experiment with new forms in writing
- Create own literary conventions
6. Which approach to displaying pronouns on name badges appeals to you?
- Clear he/she indication
- Multiple options to choose from
- Space for writing any pronouns
- Digital badge with changeable pronouns
7. How do you react to gender-specific addresses in public spaces?
- Prefer traditional forms of address
- Support using neutral terms
- Suggest alternative forms of address
- Promote new communication standards
8. Which format of educational materials about pronouns resonates with you?
- Classic educational guides
- Group workshops and discussions
- Interactive learning games
- VR simulations and digital platforms
9. How do you prefer to discuss pronouns with close ones?
- Through one-on-one personal conversations
- In a circle of supportive friends
- Creating safe spaces for dialogue
- Using modern communication formats
10. Which approach to language inclusivity appeals to you?
- Using established forms
- Promoting they/them as standard
- Creating new inclusive forms
- Developing digital solutions for inclusivity
11. How do you feel about indicating pronouns in work correspondence?
- Stick to formal style
- Support group initiative for indication
- Propose flexible signature formats
- Implement automated solutions
12. Which format of gender identity support appeals to you?
- Individual consultations
- Support groups and communities
- Creative spaces for self-expression
- Online platforms and applications
13. How do you prefer to respond to gender stereotypes in language?
- Adhere to traditional norms
- Promote neutral alternatives
- Create new language practices
- Develop technological solutions
14. Which approach to teaching children about pronouns appeals to you?
- Through traditional educational materials
- Through group games and activities
- Through creative workshops
- Through educational apps
15. How do you envision the future of pronoun usage in language?
- Maintaining traditional forms with adaptation
- Transitioning to neutral forms as standard
- Developing new forms of self-expression
- Integrating with digital technologies
Michael Chen
Michael Chen completed his Ph.D. in Gender Studies at Yale University and now leads transgender health initiatives at Boston Medical Center. His research on gender identity development has been featured in leading medical journals and informed policy development for transgender healthcare access. Dr. Chen draws from his academic expertise to create educational content that promotes understanding of diverse gender expressions and identities.
I’m genderfluid and I got they // them which is right but I also go by he // she
I’m genderfluid and don’t really know my true pronouns yet but am experimenting with he/they. It thought I was ze/zir, and that totally doesn’t suit me, but that might change.
I got they/them and I go by she/they mostly but prefer ey/em over any other pronoun I’ve ever tried.
It was kinda right tho ^ ^
I’m a he/him and I got she/her idk why!
I got ze/zir but I use they/she pronouns (pangender)
i got they/them and i’m trying out these pronouns anyway but i don’t think they fit me because i constantly have an agender presence but feel varying degrees of female. i don’t like she/her pronouns though and i don’t relate to girlflux, demigirl, paragirl. etc . if anyone has any advice on how to figure out your gender please tell me
I honestly feel really similar, like they/them pronouns are okay? ig? and she/her is also kinda eh. But it also kinda varies how I feel about my gender on the agender-femenine spectrum. I’ve looked at a lot of labels similar to girlflux (demigirl, girlfluid, paragirl, librafemenine, genderfae) and it’s like… that could be it? But I don’t really know.
I think a good sulotion for the label thing is to just, for now ignore the label part and figure out how to socialize gender first (even though I would like a fitting label and this is annoying). I’m having trouble with pronouns though because I’m to shy to ask my friends to use other pronouns for me lol.
Anyway my point is that *I think* a way to go about it is to figure out how and what you like to be refered to as. And then work from there :).
i got they them and i guess thats partly true but i use she/her/they/them
I got they/them, which are the pronouns I already use. I identify as Agender. 🙂
I got Ze/zir and those actually feel like the kind of fit I am going to still look because who knows there may be better ones for me but these kinda feel right… idrk tho. 🙂
I got they/them, even though I’m pangender and use she/they/he pronouns. I’m still figuring out my name/gender identity.
I use they and I’ll also use neopronouns as well like xe/fae/ey/e/ze/zie/xie/thon/ne/ae/ve/per/xy as I am nonbinary and agender.
You disgust me
stfu f*cktard
And how does that affect you???
Stfu why are you even here if you are disgusted by that. If you are so disgusted by it then get out of here.
how bout you like f*ck yourself
wth dude?? does it really matter to you? you don’t know them!! (hope i used the right pronouns, corect me if not pls) Why are you even here if ur gonna be talking crap like that?
be nice or your pronouns will be was/were
I actually have a question. What are neopronouns? I’ve never heard of them. Not trying to be offensive, just curious. What does it mean?
neopronouns are pronouns that exist outside of the gender binary and can be used to express genders that are not limited to traditional gender identities and expressions, often in correlation with xenogenders. there is an unlimited amount of neopronouns and a person may use as many as they want interchangeably or with a preferance.
This is the most beautiful display of identity that I’ve ever seen. Keep being you, and NEVER let anyone change you or make you feel bad about yourself.
They/them 🙂
I got he/she because I am genderfluid so yeah I use he/him or she/her but mainly he/she because I only do he or she nothing else
I got xe/xem
ok, i got they/them
Same!
same! im genderfluid too!
I got ze/zer but personally i prefer she/they/it and I will continue using she her until I come out
mine said ze/zir, and i do sometimes use those pronouns but i’m genderfluid so not always. some neopronouns overlap with my other, also overlapping pronouns.